Spring feelings: Finding love on your Smartphone

Spring is here and with it comes a growing desire for romantic adventures, one-night stands or the love of your life. The Internet and dating apps are now the most common places to meet, followed by the workplace or through friends.

Young people in particular are looking for long-term relationships or one-night stands online. Two thirds (66 per cent) of 16 to 29-year-olds have dated online at some point. Among 30 to 49-year-olds, the figure is 68 per cent, among 50 to 64-year-olds, 39 per cent and among over 65-year-olds, 20 per cent

‘The most popular device for online dating among both young and older users is the smartphone,’ reveals Karin Schaumberger, managing director of the European smartphone company emporia in Germany. With a smartphone, you can conveniently search profiles, chat or arrange appointments anytime, anywhere.

Dating apps offer the opportunity to search specifically for people with similar interests and preferences Anonymity and privacy are further advantages that attract many users.

But how do you find the right partner in the digital world? Here are seven good tips on what to look out for when online dating so that you can soon find yourself in seventh heaven.

1. The right platform

There are numerous dating apps and websites aimed at different target groups Think about what you are looking for – whether it's a serious relationship or something casual. Platforms like Tinder are ideal for casual encounters; on Bumble, women make the first move in heterosexual matches; Her and Grindr are specialised apps for the LGBTQ+ community; apps like Match or OkCupid are most popular with people aged 50 and over.

2. Be honest, but don't give everything away

Your profile is your calling card. Use recent photos that show you in a positive light. Make sure your description is authentic and appealing. Share something about your hobbies, interests and what you are looking for in a relationship. Be honest, but don't give everything away. Do not disclose sensitive information such as your address or financial details.

3. Take the initiative

Don't wait for others to message you. Be proactive and send messages to people who have sparked your interest. A friendly and interested approach can often be the key to a successful conversation.

4. Show interest

Good communication is the be-all and end-all of online dating. Ask questions to find out more about the person you are talking to and show a genuine interest. Avoid getting too personal too quickly. Take your time to build a connection.

5. Trust your gut feeling

Trust your gut feeling: if something doesn't feel right, stop communicating with that person.

6. The first real date

If you and someone click, eventually you'll need to arrange a face-to-face meeting. Choose a public place for your first date to feel safe. A coffee shop or park are ideal options for getting to know each other in a relaxed setting.

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Online dating, like dating in the analogue world, can sometimes be frustrating. Not every interaction will lead to a relationship, and that's okay. ‘The important thing is to stay positive and keep a positive attitude,’ says Karin Schaumberger from emporia.

Caption: Together instead of lonely. These two have found happiness. Photo: iStock/Viktor_69/emporia